About Us

đź–¤ About FAFO Collective

F*ck Around and Find Out—but make it curated, confident, and culture-forward.

At FAFO Collective, we’re more than a brand—we’re a lifestyle rooted in pleasure, intention, and power. Designed for Black gay men who live boldly and love freely, we create space for expression, sensuality, and grown-ass confidence. Our collections celebrate the balance of softness and strength, masculinity and femininity, joy and rebellion. Whether you’re getting dressed for the club, prepping for a night in, or creating your sanctuary at home—FAFO is for you.


This isn’t fast fashion. This is curated living for the ones who know better and still choose to do it their way.


đź’¬ Who We Are

FAFO Collective was founded by partners in life and business, Kristian Calhoun and Bertaud Ngomsi. What started as a late-night conversation over wine and dreams turned into a shared mission to create something real for our community.

We’re two Black queer creatives who got tired of brands that didn’t see us, speak to us, or center our experiences. So we built our own. With backgrounds in entertainment, business, content creation, and community-building, we created FAFO Collective as a love letter to our people: bold, intentional, and dripping in style.

This brand is rooted in the energy we live by—where confidence is currency and pleasure is non-negotiable.

🌍 Our Vision

We envision a world where Black queer folks live freely, love loudly, and take up space without apology. FAFO Collective blends culture, fashion, and public health to support that vision. From curated apparel and adult wellness products to safer sex initiatives and cultural storytelling—this is your space to thrive.

 

✨ FAFO is for the ones who:

  • Wear mesh and moisturize
  • Book the trip and pack the prep
  • Love with no disclaimers
  • Find joy in being exactly who they are